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Wednesday, April 16 - "Are Non-Work Stories Okay?"

Happy Wednesday!
Here’s what’s on the job description for today:
New roles from an AI-first employee coaching website.
Today’s Question: “I want to use an example from my school or volunteer work. Is that okay?”
"There is no such thing as failure. There are only results."

IN HIRING
Valence
The company offers a learning and development solution, coaching management and other employees via an AI coaching system.
There are currently ~25 open roles across their New York, London, and Toronto offices.
Here are a few of the most interesting roles available
Engagement Manager - Click here for full details
Associate (Operations) - Click here for full details
Associate (GTM) - Click here for full details
Click here for the company’s career page


TODAY’S QUESTION
Today’s Question: “I want to use an example from my school or volunteer work. Is that okay?
Recommendation: those stories aren’t ideal. Here’s how I’d do it:
First, the best story wins. No matter where it’s from, the most relevant and strongest story should be told.
If you’re asked about using a specific tool, software, or concept and the only or by far best example is from a club at school, trust your gut and go with it.
Second, if you’re brainstorming stories, aim first at previous work experience. It’s even better if it’s from your most recent role.
Recent stories are usually seen as more of a realistic description of who you are now but that works on a case-by-case basis. I would argue anything in the last few years is considered quite recent for an interview.
Finally, if you’re going to tell stories that paint you in a worse light, then something from outside of the professional environment is perfect.
There are many failures in the pursuit of excellence, whether it’s a hobby or even a sport. It may even better as you won’t be pictured in a similar office responsible for and failing at similar tasks to the role you’re interviewing for.
Conclusion:
There are a few great times to use non-work stories. Follow your gut on what feels right for the best outcomes.
Have a great day,
Adam